Do you recognize this?

We've been together for a long time and have two beautiful kids. From the outside, everything looks great. But I'm not happy. I don't want to be with him anymore.

Our mediation process is tense and difficult. I don’t know how we can agree and make decisions together, because we can’t communicate and don’t trust each other.

He already has a new girlfriend! He wants to introduce her to our children, but I haven't even met her yet. It's all happening too quickly. It's difficult and painful.


My partner wants a divorce, but I don't want to lose him! I'm heartbroken. My life has been turned upside down. I don't know how I'll cope financially, and I'm afraid of the future.

She cheated on me! I'm angry and hurt. I never want to see her again, but she's the mother of our children, so we will always be connected. I don't think I can handle it.

We divorced over 5 years ago, but I don't get to see my children as much as I want. She doesn't stick to our agreements or keep her promises. I just don't trust her.

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MarkFather with two children
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I went to Bart for support during the stalled negotiations with my ex-partner. We've been separated for four years and share the care of our two children, but we weren't able to reach sound agreements about co-parenting. Read more
MilankaMother of two sons
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I came across Bart on LinkedIn and approached him when I was in the middle of going through my divorce with my ex-husband.

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AmyMother of two children
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When I met Bart we immediately started talking. Bart has a very pleasant, familiar, friendly open attitude and really listens.

The difficult divorce process between me and my ex-partner, the father of my two children, took too long. I got stuck and didn't know how to move forward anymore. I was tired of fighting, just exhausted. We were stuck in the past and unable to separate properly. I have already tried different routes with my ex, from 'parent' therapy to the lawyer. Nothing seemed to help. Read more
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